Tuesday, June 19, 2012

Interview with Mary Campisi


Mary, Welcome to Deb’s Book Nook.  We are so glad you could come by and chat with us.

Please tell us a bit about yourself and the books your write.

I’m a fairly normal person, though my young adult children might have a comment or two about that statement! I’m a registered nurse by education only and I’ve been a receptionist, an executive assistant, a practice manager at an OB/GYN office and finally, gratefully, a writer! Many of my books contain medical situations and the nursing background comes in handy. I am a huge champion of hope, the underdog, and second chances, so of course, that’s what I write about. I’ve had my own share of second chances too– in marriage, career, even my rescue dog who I love to write about. The possibility of second chances inspires me as I observe the world and imagine what could be. And that’s what fills my stories; one true love, one honest hope, one more chance.

On a personal note, I love to dig in the dirt and play around with perennial flowers and herbs, walk my dog, cook, read, and on the perfect day, ride off into the sunset with my very own ‘hero’ husband on his Electra Glide Classic aka Harley.


I had the pleasure of reading THEY WAY THEY WERE and I really enjoyed it, especially how character driven your writing is. 

Tell us about your writing style. 

I’ve heard my writing style called ‘conversational and intimate’ – I guess that’s a fairly accurate assessment. When I’m writing, I think about ‘real life’ situations and the emotions attached to them. My books are indeed character driven which is no surprise if you know me. I’m very interested in people and their situations – my husband shakes his head when I tell him about someone he supposedly knows better than I do…I’ll say ‘How sad about this or that’ and ‘Good for them. Did you know…’ He usually doesn’t. I get that honestly. When my almost eighty-four year old mother (whose baking/cooking skills and common sense wisdom usually make an appearance in my books) takes her annual jaunt to California to stay with my brothers, we always ask her about her plane ride and if she got someone’s ‘whole life history’J She never disappoints.


When did you become published and how did your career as a writer come about? 

Ah, the writing journey, not to be confused with the publishing journey. Yes, well they were both quite interesting. Back in the day, I only read classics or self-improvement books. Then I became pregnant with my second child and suffered placenta previa. With a toddler at home and the concern that I might lose my baby, it was a difficult time. I had to slow down and stop playing wonder woman because it was no longer about me and what I thought I could do – now it was about my child. I started reading romances as a way to relax and because I didn’t want to read about women throwing themselves in front of trains or drinking poison elixirs. I needed happy endings. Thus entered the historical romance. After the first book, I never looked back but it wasn’t until years later that I decided to write my own.

It all began at the hands of a 286 computer, a failing marriage, and three daughters under the age of five. Writing proved wonderful, (and inexpensive) therapy as I let my fingers and bruised heart begin a tender love story where the hero and heroine surpass incredible obstacles in search of true happiness and eternal love. But the story was only 100 pages complete when I packed it away and moved with my children to a rental bungalow where I took on the challenge of single motherhood and re-entering the work force. The 5 1/4 floppy disk containing the love story remained sandwiched between Lotus and PacMan until years later, when I discovered it while unpacking boxes for the home I shared with my new husband, three children, and two stepchildren. I powered up the old 286 computer, popped in the disk, and spent the rest of the afternoon re-reading the story and mapping out my future as a writer. It would take another two years of solid writing, countless rejections, and another completed book before I made that first sale. Innocent Betrayal came out with Kensington Publishing in May 2000 and has recently been re-released through The Wild Rose Press. This Regency historical remains one of my favorites.

How many books do you have out now and what is your most recent release?

I’ve published twelve books and just this week received the rights back to one of my very favorite contemporary romances, Paradise Found! When the reversion letter came in the mail today I wanted to do cartwheels across the lawn (that didn’t happen…actually, that’s never happenedJ)

My most recent release is a former Amazon Breakthrough Novel Awards semifinalist, Pretending Normal. Years ago, it was a quarter finalist in the Ray Bradbury sponsored New Century New Writer Award. Pretending Normal is a young adult book about a teenage girl struggling to make sense of her life after her mother dies and she’s left with her alcoholic father. It’s got some pretty dark moments with a sad yet hopeful ending. My father was an alcoholic and I wanted to write this book as an acknowledgement of the human frailties that exist in all of us as well as the bond of family that holds one to another, in love, loyalty, even death.

What do you have in the works now?  Can you give us a sneak peek? 

I just finished the first in a Regency historical series I’m calling The Model Wife. It’s delightful and delicious with a very different kind of hero. Next up will be book editing and re-releasing of Paradise Found. Then book two of the An Unlikely Husband series. (The Seduction of Sophie Seacrest is book one.)

Here’s a snippet for Paradise Found – What if a man who has everything – wealth, power, looks, talent- is suddenly stripped of one of life’s most basic needs – his sight – and what if the one person who can help him redefine his new world is a woman who has been so emotionally scarred and bruised by an ex-husband that she can’t see past this man’s image to the real person inside?

Paradise Found explores the delicate balance between ‘blind’ trust and hope, the development and nurturing of feelings where physical appearances are non-existent, and the inevitable fear that accompanies any relationship when the mask of politeness is discarded and the true self is revealed.

Give us a small look into a normal day in your life.  Do you have a special routine for your writing or do you sneak it in when you get the chance? 

Life is much different than when I first began writing with five children at home. They are all up and out now and it’s just me, my husband, and our rescue dog, Cooper. I write every day after breakfast and Cooper’s morning walk. In the old days, I could concentrate on writing the story…in the new days, I have to concentrate on writing and marketing the story, which can swallow huge amounts of time. That said, I’m learning and slowly wading through the process. And though our children may live in different cities and states, I am only a phone call away – as my husband knows when my daughter calls during dinner!

Are you a big reader?  Do you have a particular genre or author that is your favorite?

Yes, I am a huge reader. I love Regency historicals. I fell in love with related stories and finally realized if I love reading about the hero’s brother or the heroine’s sister, then maybe I should think about doing that with my own books!

In regard to influence, I’ve been influenced by many writers – from Tolstoy, to Steinbeck, Joyce Carol Oates, Judith McNaught, Elizabeth Berg…and yes, Jane Austen! They have distinctive styles and when I read their work I think about what grabs me – how they create a scene or an emotion that stays with me. And then I think about how I can do that in my own work.

Do you think you have been influenced as a writer by others?

Absolutely. When I read a particular book that touches me, it stays with me a very long time. I love the classics and as oddball as this sounds, I actually took a Literature class in high school ….all by myself. I couldn’t fit this class into my schedule and the teacher let me read the books on my own and take the tests (always essay, and I always aced them.)

What is the best piece of advice you have ever been given as a writer? 

I will answer this in two parts. The single best piece of advice I’ve been given as a writer is the same advice I’ve been given in regard to life. It’s simple and very powerful – believe in yourself. If you can do this, then you can weather all manner of disappointment and setbacks. The second piece of advice came from wise woman and fellow writer, Barbara Samuel. I had just finished taking one of her classes and at the end she encouraged me to not look so much toward the outside world for direction and validation but to tap into my passions – gardens, food, dogs, quirky family history and write the best ‘me’ book I could. That singular advice helped me turn the corner in my writing and move forward with focused intent.

I would give this same advice – in life as well as in writing.

Mary, thanks so much for coming by to chat with us!  I look forward to reading more of your wonderful books.

Review of They Way They Were by Mary Campisi


If you believe in second chances, and who doesn’t want to believe there is always a second chance for love, then you will love Mary Campisi’s books. 

Rourke Flannigan and Kate Redmond were high school sweethearts.  They thought they would be together forever.  Fate had other ideas. 

Fourteen years have passed since Rourke and Kate have seen each other.  Many things have changed, and not always for the better.  Kate is now a mom and widow.  Her husband has been tragically killed in a construction site accident. 

Rourke is a successful, driven businessman & owner of several construction companies.  When he discovers the death of a subcontractor from one of his holding companies, he decides to pay the widow a visit, never guessing that widow was his childhood sweetheart.

Kate can’t believe Rourke is suddenly back in her life and she isn’t sure she wants him back.  She had made it just fine without him.  She had married a man that loved her, has a wonderful daughter, Julia, and a job she loved.  But was it all as perfect as it seemed?

In a bid to gain Kate’s trust and see if they can rekindle their love, Rourke moves back to their small home town.  With a makeshift office, a secretary way out of her comfort zone and a niece that is driving him crazy with her outlandish ways, Rourke has his hands full. 

Can the big city businessman and the small town girl really turn back time and be the people they used to be or has time changed them too much….

The journey of Rourke and Kate is a wonderful book and I really enjoyed it.

You can find Mary Campisi's work at Barnes&Noble.com and Amazon.com